The proverb “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6) is a popular verse that is often interpreted as a promise that if parents raise their children in a godly way, the children will always follow those principles. However, it is important to understand the verse in its original context. The Hebrew word translated as “train up” literally means “to dedicate” or “to set apart.” This suggests that the verse is not so much about a guarantee of future behaviour, but rather about the importance of parents setting their children on the right path from a young age.
The verse also does not specify what the “right way” is. This is because the concept of “right” is relative and varies depending on the person’s beliefs and values. However, the verse does suggest that parents should teach their children moral and ethical principles that will help them become good and responsible adults.
Of course, no parent guarantees that their child will always make the right choices. But by providing their children with a strong foundation in values and morals, parents give them the best possible chance of living a happy and fulfilling life.
Some specific ways that parents train their children in the way they should go:
Be a good role model. Children learn by watching the adults in their lives. If you want your children to be honest, trustworthy, and kind, then you need to model those qualities yourself.
Set clear expectations and rules. Children need to know what is expected of them. Be consistent in enforcing your rules, even when it is difficult.
Provide positive reinforcement. When your children do something good, be sure to praise them. This will help them to learn that good behaviour is rewarded.
Discipline appropriately. When your children make mistakes, discipline them in a way that is fair and consistent. Avoid physical punishment, which is harmful.
Talk to your children about values. Talk to your children about what you believe is important in life. This will help them to develop their own set of values.
Be patient and loving. Parenting is a challenging but rewarding journey. Be patient with your children and love them unconditionally.
By following these principles parents help their children develop into healthy, happy, and responsible adults.
Each morning, I receive an inspiring wake-up call from Rt. Rev. Dr. Silvester Ponnumuthan, His Excellency the Bishop of Punalur in Kerala, India. Today’s blog post draws inspiration from the verses shared in his morning message.
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