What’s one piece of travel advice you always follow?
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What Is the Best Travel Advice for a More Peaceful Journey?
We carefully pack our suitcases before travelling. But what about the worries we secretly pack in our minds? What if the best travel advice is to leave a little emotional baggage behind? Read the new reflection on Rise&Inspire.
What Should We Leave Behind When We Travel?
Travel advice usually concerns what we should carry: tickets, documents, medicines, money. We check our suitcases twice to make sure nothing essential is left behind.
The one piece of travel advice I always follow concerns a different kind of luggage: travel light, not only in your suitcase but also in your heart.
It sounds simple. It is easily misunderstood. Here is what I have learned it means, and what it does not.
1. The heaviest bag is the one nobody weighs
At the airport, every suitcase is weighed. Nobody weighs what we carry in our minds: unfinished work, family concerns, old disappointments, anxieties about what awaits us on our return.
So we stand before a beautiful landscape while our thoughts are elsewhere. We sit beside the sea, still caught in yesterday’s worries. We visit a historic place and barely notice it. Our bodies travel, but our minds refuse to leave home.
2. The destination will not do the unpacking for us
We often expect the journey itself to lighten us, as though a new place could lift what we brought from the old one. The ancients knew better. The Roman poet Horace observed that those who rush across the sea change their sky, not their soul. Seneca reminded a friend whose long travels had not lifted his gloom of what Socrates once said to a similar complaint: why be surprised that travel does you no good, when you always take yourself along?
The lightening does not happen at the destination. It has to begin at our own front door.
3. Leaving behind is not the same as abandoning
I do not mean that we should neglect our responsibilities or pretend our problems do not exist. Our duties will be waiting when we return.
But must every concern accompany us into every moment? Before I set out, I sort what is on my mind. A few matters genuinely need my attention while I am away; those travel with me. Others can wait. Still others have no answer today, however long I think about them. Only the first kind earns a place in my luggage.
That sorting, more than any packing list, is the advice I keep.
4. The hardest things to leave are the ones we cherish
Worries are not the only weight. Before the journey recorded in The Narrow Road to the Deep North, the Japanese poet Matsuo Basho gave up his little house to travel unencumbered. Yet by the end of his first day on the road, he was complaining of sore shoulders, weighed down by a paper coat for cold nights, rain gear, ink and brushes, and farewell gifts from friends that he could not bring himself to throw away.
Our expectations are like those gifts: the perfect itinerary, the picture of how the trip ought to go, the need for everything to happen our way. They come with love, and they are heavy all the same. Every delayed train, changed plan, and unfamiliar custom is an invitation to loosen our grip.
5. Empty hands have room to receive
The classical Tamil poets built an entire genre out of travel directions, the arruppadai or “guide poem,” in which one traveller tells another what lies along the road.[1] The Perumpanarruppadai, for instance, spends far less time on what to carry than on what to expect: the landscapes the traveller will cross and the welcome awaiting him along the way.
The Gospel offers a parallel. When Jesus sent out the Twelve, he told them to take nothing for the journey, no bag, no bread, no money (Luke 9:3), so that they would rely on the welcome of strangers.
Both traditions point to the same truth: a traveller with less to guard has more attention to give. The kindness of a stranger, the rhythm of an unfamiliar town, the changing colours of the evening sky. Small things, perhaps, but they return us to the present, where life is actually lived.
6. What we bring back matters more than what we take
When a journey ends, we bring back photographs and souvenirs. The better question is what we have learned that we can carry into ordinary life.
Perhaps a little more patience. Perhaps slower judgment of people. Perhaps the discovery that we need far less than we thought to be content, and that a quiet walk or an unhurried conversation can give us more than a crowded sightseeing schedule.
My Takeaway
Pack what you need, but do not carry every worry with you. Leave room in your heart for wonder, in your mind for new perspectives, and in your day for unexpected moments.
The suitcase usually comes home heavier. If we have travelled well, the heart comes home lighter.
A Question for You
When you travel, what do you find hardest to leave behind: your worries, your expectations, your familiar routines, or your need to have everything planned?
Share your thoughts in the comments. Your experience might offer another reader a valuable lesson for their next journey.
Note
[1] Arruppadai (literally, “guiding along the path”) is a genre of classical Tamil Sangam poetry in which a bard who has been generously received by a patron directs a fellow bard to the same patron, describing the route, the landscapes, and the hospitality to be found along the way. The Perumpanarruppadai, by the poet Kadiyalur Uruttirankannanar, is one of the Pattuppattu (Ten Idylls). It guides a bard who plays the large yazh, an ancient Tamil harp, to the court of Ilantiraiyan, ruler of Kanchi.
John Britto Kurusumuthu
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